Welcome To The London Swinger Events Page

Here we present the dynamic swinger and polyamory scene in London,

The swinger scene in London is built on a strong community of like minded non-monogamous couples looking for fun and excitement, to tat end there are a wide range of exclusive clubs, private parties, and social meetups, catered to the swinger lifestyle.

London is a hub for those exploring non-monogamous relationships. From renowned swinger venues like Le Boudoir and Hellfire Club to private mansion parties and hotel takeovers, the city offers diverse options for couples and singles seeking exciting experiences. London’s growing polyamory community also hosts regular meetups, workshops, and social events, creating a supportive and inclusive space for ethical non-monogamy. Whether you’re curious or experienced, London’s vibrant lifestyle scene offers something for everyone

Be sure to check back here regularly for local London swinger events as we update this page regularly.

November 7, 2026
Step into one of Xtasia’s most popular and sociable nights with Lock and Key — a fun, flirtatious ice-breaker event designed to get everyone mingling effortlessly from the moment they arrive.
Couples: £40 Single Females: £20
November 10, 2026
Join us for Flirts – Friends, Fun and More (FFM), the monthly play social designed for the Midlands swinging community at Xtasia, one of the UK’s most respected swingers and fetish clubs. This relaxed adult social night is perfect for couples and singles who want to meet like-minded people, socialise, and explore the lifestyle in a safe and welcoming environment.
November 13, 2026
Every second Friday of the month, Xtasia proudly joins forces with the legendary Blackmans Fan Club to deliver a high-energy night that blends the best of a mixed singles & couples nightclub with an added edge of excitement, curiosity, and connection.
Couples: £30 Single Males: £50 Single Females: £10
November 13, 2026
Flirts – Bi Night at Xtasia is a relaxed, friendly, and inclusive evening designed for bi, bi-curious, and open-minded members looking to flirt, connect, and explore in a safe, respectful environment. Whether you’re experienced in the lifestyle or just beginning to explore your bisexual side, this event offers a welcoming space with no pressure and plenty of opportunity to socialise.
November 13, 2026
MILF Mayhem returns to Xtasia as we celebrate the 1st Anniversary of this hugely popular daytime event, hosted in the relaxed and social surroundings of Flirts. If you’ve heard the buzz and wondered what all the fuss is about, this is your chance to experience it for yourself.
Single Men: £40 Couples: £20 Ladies: £10
November 13, 2026
Start your weekend the right way with our Friday Night Party at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle destination. This is your chance to unwind after a long week and step into a relaxed, friendly, and non-pushy atmosphere where genuine connections come naturally.
Couples: £40; Single Gentlemen: £50; Single Ladies: FREE
November 14, 2026
Saturday nights at Pleasures are all about connection, confidence, and sensual discovery. Join us for an unforgettable evening in Kent’s most elegant lifestyle venue — where excitement meets relaxation in a welcoming, non-pushy environment.
Couples (mf): £40; Single Ladies: £20
November 14, 2026
Xtasia introduces an exciting brand-new kink-focused event designed for curious, adventurous couples and confident single ladies looking to explore alternative desires in a safe, inclusive, and professionally run environment.
Couples: £40 Single Females: £20
November 17, 2026
Looking for a laid-back lifestyle social in the Midlands? Flirts Board Game Evening at Xtasia is the perfect chance to unwind, laugh, and connect with like-minded people in a fun, pressure-free setting.