It’s Friday night — and there’s no better place to start your weekend than Pleasures, Kent’s favourite lifestyle destination. Step into a relaxed and sensual setting where genuine connections, laughter, and discovery come naturally.

Prepare yourself for a night where desire meets adventure and the ordinary is left firmly at the door.

Step into the sensual world of Pleasures in Kent for a Saturday night filled with excitement, freedom, and indulgence. Whether you’re taking your first steps into the lifestyle or returning for another unforgettable evening, this is the perfect place to relax, connect, and explore your desires in a welcoming and non-pushy environment.

Newcummers Unleashed is the perfect introduction to the lifestyle — a relaxed, non-pressurised evening created especially for those new to swinging or new to Xtasia.

Kick off the weekend in style at Pleasures in Kent with our Friday Night Party — a perfect blend of excitement, relaxation, and connection. Designed for both newcomers and regulars, this evening offers a welcoming, non-pushy environment where you can meet like-minded people and explore your pleasures freely.

Jungle Weekend at Club F is all about raw energy, untamed flirting, and a playful atmosphere where inhibitions are left at the door. Think animal prints, tribal vibes, steamy glances, and a room buzzing with seductive curiosity.

This night marks another bold step forward for the Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded couples, ladies, and gents for an immersive, fetish-focused experience within Xtasia’s safe, well-established environment.

Join us in the Xtasia Chill Lounge for a fun and relaxed karaoke social, running from 9:00 PM until midnight.

Bi Night at The Vanilla Alternative is a vibrant, welcoming celebration for the LGBTQ+ community and beyond. This monthly event is dedicated to openness, inclusivity, and genuine connection—bringing together like-minded people in a relaxed, respectful, and beautifully social environment.