If you’ve ever been curious about the lifestyle but felt unsure where to begin, Newcummers Unleashed is designed especially for you.

This event marks a major milestone for the Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for an immersive, preference-based evening in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming club environment.

Warm up your vocal cords and start the night on a high note with Sing & Swing, Xtasia’s relaxed and social karaoke evening.

Ease into the weekend with another fabulous Friday Night Party at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle destination. Experience a relaxed, friendly, and non-pushy atmosphere where you can connect with open-minded people and explore your sensual side at your own pace.

Step into the weekend with our Saturday Party Night at Pleasures, Kent’s ultimate lifestyle venue. This is your chance to relax, mingle, and explore in a warm, friendly, and non-pushy atmosphere, surrounded by like-minded people.

Break the ice the fun way at Lock & Key, one of Xtasia’s most social and interactive nights.

Step into an unforgettable afternoon of daring play and liberated fun with CherriPie and crew — as they take over the iconic Flirts space at Xtasia for a private hire session designed for those who love to explore, connect, and indulge. This isn’t just any gathering — it’s serious mischief wrapped in electric energy, laughter, chemistry, and unmissable moments.

The Great Head Space returns to Flirts at Xtasia with a monthly social designed to support mental wellbeing within our lifestyle community — a safe, understanding environment where connection, discretion, and shared experience truly matter.

Every second Friday of the month, Xtasia proudly joins forces with the legendary Blackmans Fan Club to deliver a high-energy night that blends the best of a mixed singles & couples nightclub with an added edge of excitement, curiosity, and connection.