Step into the warm, seductive atmosphere of Pleasures for another of our signature Friday Night Parties — the perfect start to your weekend. Enjoy a relaxed and friendly evening designed for open-minded guests looking to socialise, flirt, and explore in a safe, non-pushy setting.

Saturday nights at Pleasures are all about indulgence, connection, and uninhibited fun. Step into a welcoming, non-pushy atmosphere where the music flows, the conversations spark, and fantasies come to life in style.

One of the most anticipated nights on the Xtasia calendar returns with FFFF – Fab Friends Free Fun—a high-energy, feel-good event created especially for our amazing community.

CherriPie and her carefully selected team take over Flirts for an afternoon of unapologetic indulgence and playful mischief.

Friends, Fun & More (FFM) is Xtasia’s monthly Play Social, bringing together members of the Midlands swinging community in a relaxed, friendly setting designed to help genuine connections grow naturally.

Every month, Xtasia teams up with Blackmans Fan Club to bring you a vibrant, high-energy mixed night that blends classic nightclub vibes with lifestyle curiosity and connection.

Flirts Bi Night is a relaxed, friendly space for bi and bi-curious members to flirt, connect, socialise, and explore in a comfortable, pressure-free environment.

MILF Mayhem returns to Flirts at Xtasia—and this time, we’re celebrating its 1st Anniversary in true Xtasia style.

Unwind and kick off your weekend at Pleasures — Kent’s premier lifestyle club offering an elegant, relaxed, and inclusive setting for open-minded adults. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a returning guest, our Friday Night Party provides the perfect balance of socialising, seduction, and freedom.