THE XY CLUB – MIDWEEK DAYTIME EVENT
Date: Wednesday 24th September 2025
Time: 11:00 AM – 4:00 PM
Location: The Lifestyle Lodge, South Derbyshire (near Burton-on-Trent)
A Private & Discreet Social for Bi/Gay Men and Trans Guests
The XY Club invites you to a relaxed, friendly, and safe daytime event designed exclusively for bisexual and gay men, as well as trans guests, who want to meet, socialise, and possibly play in a private, non-judgmental, and secure environment.
Set within The Lifestyle Lodge, a large, discreet 4-bedroom house hidden away near Burton-on-Trent, this event offers a welcoming and intimate space where you can be yourself, away from the risks of public cruising or random meets.
What to Expect
✔ Verified Guests Only – ensuring a respectful and secure experience
✔ Secluded Venue – a private house with large gardens for outdoor fun in summer
✔ 3 Themed Playrooms – The Black & White Room, The Blue Room, and The Red Boudoir
✔ The Backlash Bar & Social Area – for drinks and conversation
✔ Hot Tub Area – perfect for relaxing
✔ Changing Facilities Available
Why Attend The XY Club?
We offer a better alternative to meeting in risky or public places. The XY Club is about socialising, connection, and discretion, with no pressure and no obligation to play. Our ethos is to create a safe, inclusive, and enjoyable environment for everyone attending.
Contribution: £20 per person (to cover costs)
Drinks: Bring your own alcohol. Soft drinks and mixers are available at a small charge. Light snacks provided.
Additional Features
- LGBTQI+ friendly photo shoots available for guests who want discreet, high-quality photos for profiles (on your own device)
- No membership required – verified guests only
- Nearby Hotels: Several reasonably priced hotels within a short distance – message for details
House Rules
- NO means NO – always respect others
- Safe Sex Policy in place
- No mobile phones inside (except for approved photo sessions)
- Strict zero-drugs policy
- Dress Code: Smart, sexy attire (no trainers, sportswear, hoodies, or ripped jeans). Effort is expected. Personal hygiene is essential.
Book Your Place
All events are prepaid ticket only (non-refundable and non-transferable).
Click here to secure your ticket and join us for six hours of socialising, fun, and exploration in a safe and welcoming setting.