All Events

This event marks a major milestone for the Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for a bold, immersive, and unapologetically fetish-focused night at Xtasia.

Our Friday Night Party is the perfect way to unwind after a long week. Enjoy a glass of something smooth in the welcoming lounge and mingle with friendly, open-minded guests who love to socialise, flirt, and have fun. The vibe is easygoing and inclusive — whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a regular guest, you’ll instantly feel at home.

Sing and Swing is a relaxed, feel-good social night hosted in the Xtasia Chill Lounge, combining laid-back karaoke with the welcoming atmosphere Xtasia is known for.

Bring your team colours, your competitive edge, and your playful side for a night where sporty energy meets irresistible chemistry. Football Weekend at Club F is all about friendly rivalry, easy connections, and scoring well beyond the pitch.

Get ready for one of Xtasia’s most anticipated and playful events of the year — the Foam Party.

Step into a world of sensual sophistication at Pleasures in Kent for our Desire and Dazzle Lingerie Party — an enchanting evening designed for couples and single ladies who love to dress up, indulge, and explore their passions in style.

Prepare for an unforgettable afternoon of bold fun and liberated play! Join CherriPie and her crew as they take over Flirts for an exclusive Gangbang session — where the energy is high, the company is thrilling, and the atmosphere is electric. This is not just another meet-up — it’s a carefully curated private hire event for open-minded adults ready to dive into serious mischief and connection.

Step into a relaxed yet flirtatious evening designed to bring the Midlands Swinging Community together in a genuinely social, welcoming, and playful environment. FFM – Friends, Fun & More is Xtasia’s much-loved monthly Play Social, created for members who value connection just as much as chemistry.

It’s time to celebrate one year of MILF Mayhem at Xtasia — and you’re invited to join the party! What started as a daytime favourite has become a legendary Flirts event, known for its playful energy, confident crowd, and irresistible atmosphere. Now, we’re marking its 1st Anniversary in true Xtasia style.

Xtasia proudly teams up once again with the Blackmans Fan Club for a high-energy, highly anticipated monthly night that celebrates confidence, desire, and open-minded connections. Held every second Friday of the month, this event blends Xtasia’s classic mixed nightclub atmosphere with the unmistakable presence of a dedicated group of admired men — and the couples and singles who seek them.