Club Nights & Parties

Held every second Tuesday of the month, Friends, Fun & More (FFM) is a relaxed and welcoming play social created especially for members of the Midlands Swinging Community who value genuine connection as much as shared experiences.

Running every third Friday of alternate months (February, April, June, August, October, December), Hot Wives at Xtasia is one of the most anticipated themed nights on the calendar — created for those who enjoy the confidence, chemistry, and excitement found within hot-wife and stag & vixen dynamics, as well as those who simply appreciate a room full of attractive, open-minded people.

Start your weekend in style at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle venue, where the atmosphere is relaxed, the company is open-minded, and the night promises endless possibilities.

Saturdays at Pleasures are made for indulgence, excitement, and connection. Our Saturday Party Night invites you to experience an evening where sophistication meets seduction in a relaxed, friendly, and non-pushy atmosphere.

Running every other month on the third Saturday, CLIMAX is the event for those who truly love to swing and want the energy turned up from the very start. Designed to encourage maximum interaction and irresistible chemistry, this is a night where confidence, connection, and play take centre stage.

Get ready for a night where curiosity takes control and the ordinary is left at the door. Wild Temptations is designed to ignite your senses, stir your imagination, and invite you to explore a world where desire and adventure collide.

Start your weekend in style with the ever-popular Friday Night Party at Pleasures, Kent’s elegant and inclusive lifestyle venue. Step into a world where the atmosphere is relaxed, the crowd is friendly, and every guest is free to explore their desires in a welcoming, non-pushy environment.

Saturday nights at Pleasures are all about connection, exploration, and indulgence. Join us for our signature Saturday Party Night, where the atmosphere is warm, the crowd is welcoming, and the possibilities are endless.

Kick off your weekend in style at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle destination. Our Friday Night Party is the perfect way to unwind, connect, and explore in a relaxed, non-pushy setting where everyone is welcome.

When the calendar gifts us a fifth Friday, BMFC Bonus Night steps in — an extra-special addition to the Blackmans Fan Club calendar, appearing roughly every three months and always delivering a buzz that regulars look forward to.