September 4, 2026
Step into the warm, seductive atmosphere of Pleasures for another of our signature Friday Night Parties — the perfect start to your weekend. Enjoy a relaxed and friendly evening designed for open-minded guests looking to socialise, flirt, and explore in a safe, non-pushy setting.
September 4, 2026
Warm up your voice, grab the mic, and let your inner performer out—Sing and Swing brings a playful, social twist to your Xtasia night.
September 5, 2026
One of the most anticipated nights on the Xtasia calendar returns with FFFF – Fab Friends Free Fun—a high-energy, feel-good event created especially for our amazing community.
September 5, 2026
Saturday nights at Pleasures are all about indulgence, connection, and uninhibited fun. Step into a welcoming, non-pushy atmosphere where the music flows, the conversations spark, and fantasies come to life in style.
September 11, 2026
Unwind and kick off your weekend at Pleasures — Kent’s premier lifestyle club offering an elegant, relaxed, and inclusive setting for open-minded adults. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a returning guest, our Friday Night Party provides the perfect balance of socialising, seduction, and freedom.
September 11, 2026
Every month, Xtasia teams up with Blackmans Fan Club to bring you a vibrant, high-energy mixed night that blends classic nightclub vibes with lifestyle curiosity and connection.
September 12, 2026
Get ready for another unforgettable evening at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle venue. Our Saturday Night Party is the highlight of the weekend — a chance to relax, mingle, and explore in a warm, welcoming, and non-pushy atmosphere.
September 18, 2026
Join us for another irresistible evening at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle venue. Our Friday Night Party is the perfect way to unwind, connect, and explore in a warm, friendly, and non-pushy atmosphere.
September 18, 2026
Tom_and_Jerry69 invite you to a night dedicated to irresistible chemistry, confidence, and age-positive attraction at Cougars & Cubs.
September 19, 2026
This is a preference event aimed at the under-40s, creating a vibrant, energetic atmosphere filled with fun, flirtation, and confidence. As always, all couples and single female members are welcome, but you can expect a noticeably younger crowd and a buzzing social vibe throughout the night.



