The weekend begins here — at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle venue, where Friday nights are all about connection, curiosity, and carefree fun.

Freedom Friday is all about leaving the working week behind and stepping into an evening of relaxation, connection, and indulgence at The Vanilla Alternative. This is a relaxed, social, and inclusive night open to couples, ladies, and pre-booked gentlemen, making it the perfect way to ease into the weekend.

Taking place every second Friday of the month, Xtasia proudly partners with the Blackmans Fan Club to bring you a lively, mixed social night with a welcoming and energetic atmosphere.

Swing Both Ways is a welcoming and respectful night created for bi and bi-curious guests, offering a safe space to relax, socialise, and explore attraction and connection without judgement.

It’s time to celebrate one full year of MILF Mayhem in Flirts, and we’re marking the occasion in true Xtasia style—with great company, irresistible energy, and a daytime atmosphere that always delivers.

Join us for Pleasures’ Doctors and Nurses Theme Night, where fantasy meets flirtation in an atmosphere that’s equal parts playful and provocative.

Introducing Kinky Fuckers, a brand-new event at Xtasia designed for couples and ladies who want to explore kink in a safe, welcoming, and well-equipped environment.

Make your Saturday night count at Ignite with our classic Couples & Singles Saturday — a lively, well-balanced club night designed for socialising, flirting, dancing, and exploring at your own pace.

Step into a night of fluid desire, open exploration, and uninhibited connection at THE ANNEX Bi NiGHT — a vibrant and inclusive swingers party celebrating bisexual freedom, curiosity, and authentic expression.