Located a good distance out in Sunbury, for many swingers, Hellfire is worth the commute. While it may be a little bit of a drive (about 12 miles from the center of London), the parking is easy, and the inside is an incredible playground for swingers from all parts of the UK.
About Hellfire
It’s upstairs dance floor, which is surrounded by private rooms, is only upstaged by it’s downstairs that offers themed playrooms for couples.
Hellfire is considered a London rock club that’s got a long history in the area. Its a well-known, well-respected swingers club. Its more than just sanitary, its clean and safe.
Let’s talk about the crowd. Yes, you’ll still find some sleezy single guys walking about, but not near as many as you might expect in normal swinger clubs. It’s mostly couples. The age range is super wide, you’ll find couples in their 20s sitting alongside couples in their 70s. That said, Hellfire has a lot of special nights which may encourage specific age groups to attend.
The management and staff are completely awesome. They’re always there to help and engage in a super respectful manner.
Music varies given the nights.
There are dungoens that feature bendover stools, chains that have restraints, private rooms, and lots of other play things.
The vibe is laid back.
The overall atmosphere is hot.
Lots of sexy dancers and shows.
Also, Hellfire is all about safety. There’s typically condoms found in all the rooms.
What To Expect
The first night you attend, scope things out. Go in with a positive and energetic mindset with a willingness to meet new people. It’s not a clicky place, but it does take time to acclimate to any new swingers club. Like many swingers clubs, you can expect some BDSM vibes. If it’s not your thing, don’t worry, there’s a bit of everything including just traditional swinger vibes.
Be willing to start some conversations and make eye contact with people. You don’t want to be overly shy in a swingers club in general. Maybe have a drink, but don’t have five as you don’t want to be sloshed. Try to go into the first night with a mentality that you’ll meet some new people. Whatever happens on top of that is the icing on the cake. Be open to new experiences and of course, make sure you practice safety in all ways.
You might also consider using Group Fun to connect with London swingers prior so you can form a meetup group and have a “home base.”
Lastly
Hellfire is a top swingers club in London, right up there with Le Boudoir. The drive is a little bit for some people, but honestly, its only 12 miles out if you live in the center of London. Though, folks used to public transportation have different perspectives on what’s near vs. far.
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