Nope, we aren’t talking about the same swing states that America’s embattled politicians are vying to win. These are a little different.
Many American states were taken aback when a recent report revealed they ranked among the top 10 for swinging. While London has long been recognized as a premier swinger destination, the United States is seeing a surge in this unconventional lifestyle, especially in places you might not expect.
Many American states were rather taken aback when a recent report revealed they ranked among the top 10 for swinging. Whilst London has long been recognised as a premier destination for swingers, the United States is experiencing a surge in this unconventional lifestyle, especially in places one might not expect.
The new report by Joy Love Dolls, an adult novelty retailer, has sparked quite the conversation. Local news agencies across several states are discussing the findings with a touch of humour, suggesting that your next-door neighbour might just be part of the swinger community.
So, what exactly did the report uncover? Let’s delve into the numbers.
According to the report, Pennsylvania leads the way with 660 swingers per 100,000 residents. Close behind is New York with 590, followed by Delaware at 537. The list continues with Michigan (526), New Jersey (512), Virginia (501), North Carolina (498), South Carolina (481), Nevada (460), and Ohio (459). Completing the top 15 are Maryland (458), Florida (453), Rhode Island (453), Connecticut (439), and Tennessee (437).
But how were these statistics determined? Joy Love Dolls analysed online search data, membership numbers on swinger websites, and participation in swinger events to calculate the number of swingers per 100,000 people in each state. This approach provides a per capita perspective, revealing not just the sheer numbers but the prevalence relative to each state’s population.
The report didn’t just stop at the figures. It also shed light on the signs that someone might be a swinger. Neighbours are being playfully encouraged to keep an eye out for upside-down pineapples, pink flamingos in the garden, or even a hot tub in the back garden. While these symbols have been associated with the swinger lifestyle, it’s important to take such indicators with a pinch of salt. After all, someone might simply have a fondness for tropical décor or enjoy relaxing in a hot tub.
Beyond the humour, the report touches on a more serious note: the quest for acceptance. The swinger community often faces misconceptions, one of the biggest being that it’s solely about sex. In reality, many swingers emphasise the importance of trust, communication, and building meaningful relationships. They’re seeking a community where they can express themselves freely without judgement.
London, already established as a top swinger destination, seems to share this growing trend with the US. The rise in swinging both in the UK and across the pond suggests a shift in societal attitudes towards alternative lifestyles. As more people seek out new ways to connect and explore relationships, swinging is becoming a more visible part of the social landscape.
Local news outlets in these states have been quick to pick up on the report, often adding a light-hearted spin. Headlines tease about the possibility of the couple next door leading a double life, and morning shows discuss the topic with a mix of curiosity and amusement.
But why the sudden interest? Part of it could be the increasing openness about discussing previously taboo subjects. The internet has also played a significant role, providing platforms where like-minded individuals can connect discreetly and safely.
Moreover, the swinger community is advocating for greater understanding. They argue that swinging is not just about physical relationships but also about embracing freedom, fostering trust, and breaking down traditional boundaries. They hope that by raising awareness, they can dispel myths and reduce the stigma often associated with their lifestyle.
As the conversation continues, it’s clear that swinging is more prevalent than many might have thought. Whether it’s the surprising statistics from states like Pennsylvania and New York or the familiar swinger scene in London, this lifestyle is gaining visibility.
In conclusion, the Joy Love Dolls report has not only highlighted the unexpected popularity of swinging in certain US states but also opened up a broader discussion about acceptance and understanding. As neighbours exchange knowing glances over their fences adorned with pink flamingos, perhaps it’s time to reconsider our perceptions and embrace the diversity of relationships that make up our communities.
Charles Lace is a distinguished UK-based writer, born in 1975 in Brighton, who has become a prominent voice in the open relationship and swinger communities. His passion for exploring and documenting alternative lifestyles, particularly in the UK, has made him a well-known figure in these circles.
After studying Creative Writing at the University of East Anglia, Lace began his career as a freelance journalist for London newspapers. In his late 20s, he found his niche writing about non-monogamous relationships and the swinger lifestyle. His breakthrough came in 2005 with the publication of “Open Hearts, Open Doors: An Introduction to Ethical Non-Monogamy,” which became an unexpected bestseller in its niche.
Known for his frank yet sensitive approach, Lace’s writing style combines personal anecdotes with well-researched information and expert interviews. He regularly contributes to various swinger publications, most notably through his column in “Lifestyle Horizons,” a popular UK-based magazine for the swinger and polyamorous communities.